The Real Kait

The journey of a nontraditional college grad & entrepreneur

Grad-itude P.I

It’s been more than a little while since I last posted, but in all fairness my life has taken a dramatic turn since the earlier months of the school year..  The month of September was spent feverishly trying to garner support for the Lenovo blog contest, adjusting to life as a graduate student and running out the remainder of my energy on the pavement.  Needless to say by the time October rolled around, the cold weather gave me a chance to breathe, but only for a moment.

Part of the graduate program involves a leadership retreat weekend in the mountains in western Colorado.  During this three day escape to the dead zones of all wireless devices which included a six hour trek by bus, two MBA classes separated into teams of twelve and spent the weekend harnessed into ropes courses, navigating terrain and topping mountains, repeatedly.  Moments of rest were rare and usually spent in conversation about team and individual dynamics.  I learned a lot about myself that weekend but that’s another story.

I returned home exhausted but strangely exhilarated to take on whatever came my way for the rest of the quarter, which was a lot, especially the minor detail of coming up with the necessary $20,286 in order for me to finish my year and my degree.  Monday morning started out awful.  I was greeted by a friendly email sent by the lovely people at the financial aid office that despite the fact the federal government accepted a graduate loan, they denied my request on a technicality.  I was shit out of luck.

I called my dad, unable to fathom how I could possibly stay in school, my head already swimming with plans of moving out, finding a job and never finishing school… for me, the worst nightmare ever.   As I delivered the capital punishment verdict on my masters degree to my father my email refreshed and up popped the most glorious sight I have ever seen: “CONGRATULATIONS WINNER OF THE $20,000 LENOVO UNIVERSITY OF BLOGGERS SCHOLARSHIP.”  Just to make sure I wasn’t delusional, I opened it immediately and read through the whole thing making sure it wasn’t a mistake.  Sure enough, it was addressed to ME, Kait Vinson.

At that point my dad was still on the line, offering suggestions on how to fix my dilemma, and he noticed I had gone silent.  “Kait?” he asked, and I replied barely able to stammer, “Never mind Dad, I won…”

“You won what honey?”

“Dad, I freaking won, I won it all, I won the scholarship!”

“No way, you’re kidding me..  Really?!  Congratulations! Oh man, you have to tell your mother..”

I heard him calling my mom to the phone and in the background I could hear her telling my dad it better not be bad news, she didn’t need any more bad news.

“Mom?  Um, I won.”

“You won what sweetie?”

“Mom, I won the scholarship, the $20,000 scholarship!”

I couldn’t hold it together anymore, it hit me and I was screaming and crying and laughing all at once.. It was like suddenly the whole world turned upside down and was finally out for me instead of against me.

The Check

THE Check

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I received the check in the mail a month later, and happily paid for my tuition, feeling so thankful for being so blessed.  In the last weekend before the end of the blog contest ended, I went from the number 2 slot to the number 1 to win the grand prize.  The reason?  The amazing outpouring of support at the eleventh hour from none other than my grandfather and everyone touched by his passing.  He lived only until the few days before the end of the contest and I was fortunate enough to be able to write about him in regards to my blogging and running journey and all my relatives emailed, facebooked, and shared my posts.  My grandfather gave me one last gift which I will remember every day for the rest of my life: my last year of college and my dream of getting my International MBA, for which he and the rest of my family and friends will have my never-ending grad-itude.

Kait Vinson Winner of the 2010 Lenovo University of Bloggers

Photographic Evidence: As insisted by my mother.

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How to Avoid Being a Facebook Loser…

Facebook No-Nos (Part one of a 4 part Facebook Etiquette series)

These days it’s almost impossible to keep your personal and professional lives separate with the rampant use of social media platforms such as Facebook, Twitter, LinkedIN, blogs and many others.  The trouble is, what information should you post, and is there a line between personal and too personal?  It’s hard to avoid hearing about co-workers, family members and friends that have been caught off-guard by exposing too much of their dirty laundry and have suffered essentially from social and career suicide.  I did a little research on Failbook.com and my own personal peeves concerning Facebook and I came up with the following list of tips to keep your image spic and span and still have fun.  Here’s the first part in the four part series.

TMI (Too Much Information): Putting too much personal information on your Facebook account can make it look cluttered and leave you vulnerable to things like identity theft.  Appropriate information is that which you’d be ok with your boss, old high school teacher or your mom seeing.

less is MORE: Applications like Farmville can be fun and addicting but make sure that if you have them that they are hidden and aren’t posting to your wall or inviting your friends to be your neighbor.  The fewer applications linked to and visible on your profile, the faster your page loads and the cleaner and more professional it looks.

Plague Status Updates: These updates are ones no one want to see or hear about.  A mis-type, accidental posting or the revealing of news more suited for personal interaction make people cringe…  You also never know when someone will pick up the post and share it on any of the numerous sites dedicated to the most unfortunate status updates.

Wall Etiquette: The wall… Back in the days when Facebook kept a running number of posts on someone’s profile, it was all about getting attention and being popular by have the most posts by the most friends than anyone else.  Remember when “fishing for comments” was common just to get to the big 1,000?  Well now that Facebook removed this popularity contest, the wall represents the user directly rather than their friends’ opinions.  When employers or family members stalk a profile they look at posts and no one wants to find a rambling comment about “The Hangover” style weekend they shared.  Keep the wall real and keep it you, no one gets offended for deleting the post anyway, and if they do, they’re still upset about the retirement of the old wall.

Privacy: Despite the massive amounts of privacy controls that Facebook has created, most people hardly bother to look at what their profiles look like with a simple Google search.  There are an amazing amount of controls available to users that can limit everything from profile accessibility to blocking specific users from seeing a single photo album.  Learn em and use em, you never know when someone will come looking for dirt..

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How Addicted to Facebook Are You?

I recently decided that I was going to take a break from Facebook for the rest of August in order to do some of the things I’d been wanting to all summer but “never quite got around to it.” Since abandoning my Facebook on Friday I have gone biking, water skiing twice, went to a college send-off party to help incoming freshmen adjust, attended a end of the year fiesta with friends and even personally went to pick up my little brother from a summer music festival. But although I’ve had so many things to fill up my time, it has been super hard to keep from clicking that inviting little F on my bookmarks bar. It has been the longest three days of my life. Can I really make it all the way until September?

What about you? How addicted to Facebook are you??

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You’re More Influential than You Think!

ABOUT THE PROJECT

We started with a simple question: Who are the most influential people online right now?

That’s what The Influence Project is designed to answer. By participating, you will have your picture appear in the November issue of Fast Company magazine as part of an amazing photo spread. The more influence you demonstrate, the bigger your picture will be.

You may discover that you’re more influential than you think.

Influence is not only about having the most friends or followers. Real influence is about being able to affect the behavior of those you interact with, to get others in your social network to act on a suggestion or recommendation. When you post a link or recommend a site, how many people actually bother to check it out? And what’s the likelihood of those people then forwarding it on? How far does your influence spread?

This is the type of influence we’re looking for. We want to find the most influential person online.
Who knows? It might even be you.

Click below to check out how influential YOU are!

Fast Company is searching for 2010′s Most Influential Person Online.  http://fcinf.com/v/bd4u


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Are you DYING not knowing the answer?

What questions are you simply DYING to ask about social media?

Is your online presence and social media marketing flailing because you don’t know the answer?

Here’s a special invite for YOU to join the discussion!

Ask ANYTHING!  Chances are someone else is burning to ask the same thing!

Count me in!

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